Dug (December 2000 - February 20001)
Dream: I have had these dreams about the same girl for the past 10 months I have known this girl for a year. I have had 2 dreams that are the same, and 3 other ones.I have not been in a relationship with this girl . dream 1&2 : I'm standing next to the bar in the backyard watching kids play when this girl starts talking to me we start to get touchy with each other then she kisses me on the cheek then we organise to sleep together but first she has to put her son to bed. I have had this dream twice with in 6 weeks of each other and they have been both the same.Dream 3( this girl has gone back to N.Z to fight for custody of her son) this dream I'm in N.Z with this girl & her sons father's brother(a person I have never met) and his offering all sorts of drugs but I keep on saying no, but he keeps on truing to get me to try some so I say yes to some cocaine this girl seams shocked, next I'm on my work truck fixing something when all of a sudden there's all the yelling and screaming and the girls son's father arrives going off at his brother for selling drugs and that he wants to win custody of his son. next he introduces himself to me I'm scared at first(he meant to be very violent person)but the fear goes as we talk the funny thing is he already knows all about me and what I do for a living. then he leaves but on his way a dog he knows comes up to play which he goes overboard with the playing then the dream ends.Dream 4 I can't remember this dream other then I'm on a beach and there's a big aquarium at one end next thing this same girl comes out of nowhere and starts to kiss me on the cheeks as if she is trying to thank me for something. that is where it ends. Dream 5 I can't remember any of this dream other then this same girl is trying to give me a message or tell me something and a kid opens a door that where it ends but when I awoke I felt really,really good and I was talking to my flat mate and she said she could feel her present as they are best friends.
Quentin's Diagnosis: Dear Dug, Your dream is telling you not to easily get sucked in to other peoplešs realities. You start out contented with life and although you have not been in a relationship with this girl, you may have known her in a past life. This could also be a demonstration of your feminine self but the girl is like the person or partner youšd like. What are you willing to take on with your next step. The bar in the backyard is you entering your sub-conscious, watching children play is your inner child and reflecting on happy families. Maybe this appeals to you. Are you prepared to take on a partner with an ex-husband, children etc, or what do you really want in your life. It seems like you canšt please anybody, with the brother and boyfriend of this female in Dream 3 and a dog you know, comes to play and then is out of control, which shows that you can get out of control with the way you play or the situation is out of your control. Focus on what you want to do, get in touch with your inner child and open the door for what you want to do. Youšre content to begin with, why give all that up to be drawn into other peoplešs dramas.