ALISON

Dream: In the same night I dreamed both my parents were dead and then they came to life again. These were two separate dreams, my father first and I was just devastated, then he came "back to me" at work. My mother was dead then she just came back, I asked her what happened and she just said they made a mistake. I then imagined her in the morgue waking up, I asked her if she went there and she did not know. On both occasions I was extremely upset, but couldn't express it. My dreams usually leave me with a feeling in the morning, if its good or bad and sets my emotion for the whole day.

Quentin's Diagnosis: Take a good look at your relationship with your mother and father and how it's changed or matured over time. You will find that the wisdom and influence of your parents dies to a certain extent when you're out there thinking for yourself. Your relationship with each individual, both in your family circle and friends, will go through times that can never be repeated because of change both in people and life's circumstances. As your personality evolves, there will be times that you sound just like your mother, or you ask yourself - What would dad do in this situation. Take the good points to guide you and have the wisdom to change the bad things. To find out what these points about yourself are, ask yourself - My mother always........... but I never do, My father always...............but I never do. From this you will be able to use the wisdom that has been taught you and eradicate that which is not relevant in your world. We all pick up bad habits and it can be just as hard recognizing them and as the saying goes, "Bad habits die hard" or something like that. In your dream your father came back to you at work - Take the good qualities of your father and put them to good work without neglecting your mother. Try to spend a moment to yourself to write down your dreams. Get to that lingering feeling inside you and breath it out in a mini-meditation before you start your day. Having written it down will make it easier for you to assimilate your dream and get back to unraveling the message later instead of letting it hound your day.

 

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