Dream:I have been married twice and at the moment am separated from my second husband awaiting financial availability for a divorce. Neither of my two marriages were happy ones. I am now engaged to a beautiful, kind, sincere and loving man which will soon be my third and hopefully final marriage.When I was with my second husband, I would have this recurring dream that I was back with my first husband and even in the dream I would remember thinking "what am I doing back here, I don't want to be here." Still the dreams persisted and it was quite worrying at the time.I have been separated from my second husband for two years now and have been with my now fiance for 14 months. Just recently I have started to have the same recurring dreams but this time it is that I am back with my second husband and feel the same thing in the dream "what am I doing back here, I don't want to be here." Again this is very disturbing as I am completely happy with my fiance and love him dearly.
Quentin's Diagnosis:Your dream is trying to tell you what you need to look at within your relationship, so as not to fall into the same pattern with your new relationship.It seems that you've blamed your past husbands for lots of things that went wrong during your relationship with them. To understand why these dreams keep recurring, ask yourself "how do I pull that response out of men". Perhaps it's because you are so powerful. Do you change after marriage. Don't fall into the same hole each time. You must say to yourself, "For things to change, I must change".